Financial Help for Single Parents

Finding Subsidized Housing, Child Care and Scholarships

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Making ends meet as a single parent can be hard, but knowing where to look for financial help makes a big difference.

When you're the sole provider for your child or children, knowing where and how to get the help you need as a parent can make a huge difference to your quality of life. One of the most important resources a single parent needs is a reliable income and the knowledge required to make that income cover all of your family's expenses. Of course, if you don't know where to look for financial help available to single parents, you can't ask for it, so here is a guide to seeking financial assistance as a single parent.

Subsidized Housing for Single Parents

Housing costs are one of the highest single outgoings for most families, but for a single parent the cost of safe housing can easily rise out of the scope of your budget. Depending on where you live, your country or city may have subsidized housing programs available, with preference given to single parents below a certain income level. Check your local social or governmental services office to inquire about the availability of social or subsidized housing in your area.

If you aren't able to find subsidized housing in your area, you might consider looking for another single parent to share housing with. CoAbode is an organization that helps single mothers find other like-minded single mothers in the US and Canada who want to share housing costs, housework and childcare. Although there is a membership fee to access the listings of other people available to share housing with, they do provide low-cost single use memberships of $5-15.

Understanding Maternity Leave, Subsidized Child Care and Welfare Payments

It is important to understand the rules surrounding any social welfare payments you may currently receive, or which you might be entitled to claim. If you don't know you're entitled to a payment you can't apply to receive it, so take the time to read through all the relevant documentation that is available on your government's social services website or phone a government office and talk to a representative who can help you figure out what payments you are entitled to.

It can take some time and persistence to work your way through the red tape and multiple application forms often required to receive government payments, but the increase in income is usually worth the time and effort involved in applying. Remember to ask questions regarding your continued eligibility for any payments you may receive, and how a change in your housing or employment could impact that payment.

Bursaries and Scholarships for Single Parents

Furthering your education is a good way of ensuring a better income for your family in the future, but paying for your university degree can be a real financial challenge for a single parent. Research the bursaries and scholarships available at your university or college, especially those set aside for single parents in particular. Some schools also have an emergency fund, which you can use in case your student loan or scholarship isn't paid to you on time, or subsidized child care available to students.

Sometimes the hardest part of finding financial aid as a single parent is knowing where to look for it. By researching eligibility requirements for subsidized housing, child care, welfare payments, bursaries and scholarships you will have a better idea of what kind of financial aid is available for single parents in your area.

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May 19, 2009 10:29 AM
Guest :
nothing about single fathers who get there kids over night each week who work full time but still cant afford anywhere to olive
Jun 27, 2009 11:01 AM
Guest :
I am a single parent of an autistic child(15 yo son). He gets SSI, but I am in school working on my degree so that I can get a well enough job so that I will not have to keep going thru the Dept. of Human Services for help. All I asked for is some food stamps, no check. They cut of $138.00 in stamps because his check went up $30.00. I have no other income. Then you have people like Octo-mom who does not want to do anything, but people will give her help and money all day long. Do I have to have six more kids for people to start helping me??????
Jul 2, 2009 6:37 PM
Guest :
I have a frined who is in the process of getting her 3 girls back (11, 9,8). Teh problem is is she is lost hours at her work. Anywhere she goes for assistance she get caught in the catch 22. They will help her if she had her children, but she can't get the children back until she finds a place for them all to live. She lives in SK, and has no help from the father currently. If you know any websites that may help her please e-mail me at cabuchholz@hotmail.com Thank you
Aug 29, 2009 11:55 PM
Guest :
hot mom! rrrrrr!
Feb 3, 2010 1:51 PM
Guest :
How about help for a single father? Im 23 with a about to be 2 year old daughter. I have no help and don't know where to look. Everything is for single moms. But when your a single parent it don't matter if your a mom or dad. Either way its going to be hard. But I can't find anything for help for a single dad. If you know of anything please email me at " cashflow717@tmail.com " thanks.
Apr 5, 2010 10:09 PM
Guest :
Good to know other dads are stuck in the same situation as me! I work 60 hours a week, go to school for my welding certificate and don't receive child support but yet there's nothing out there to help! I'm stuck I'm my parents house with my 15 m old daughter, 10 inside cats, and keep running into dead ends!
Apr 7, 2010 8:20 PM
Guest :
I am the mother of a single mom...w/a 2 year old son. Her S/O abandoned them in a house she cannot afford alone and bills she cannot pay. She works approximately 30 to 36 hours per week at the local Walmart making barely above minimum wage. She has no extra money and can get no help anywhere from anybody. Even Rental Assistance housing is $300 a month which is 1/2 her income for the month. Somehow this just simply does not seem fair. The local HUD approved housing has a 1 year waiting list. She will lose her current housing on the 19th. Where is she to go? She is very rural with no Homeless Shelter or anything available. The local DHS is no help whatsoever and even HUD application will take 'a couple of months' before you are contacted for your interview. How is this help? We are several hundred miles apart and I have no means to get her to me or financially assist her. This is just nuts. She has a protective order as her S/O was abusing the baby, taking him in the closet and beating him leaving him bruised and very scared. Again, this is the screwyest system I have ever seen in my life.
Apr 21, 2010 11:35 AM
Guest :
I know it's a tough situation when you're a single mother, I wasn't but my mom was she raise four of us parenting by day to tend us with us, working by night to feed us and support us in our school needs,foods,clothing,fares etc.

For single mother who seeks financial help you could try and visit: http://www.singlemomfinancialhelp.com/
Jul 4, 2010 1:21 PM
Guest :
im a young single mother strugling to get a place, i can afford up to $400 f/night but no real estate will look at me coz i have no rental history. i don't drink or smoke and im fairly good at saving. really need some advise on this and piont me in a derection coz all i can find on the net is for amaricans. im in australia
Jul 9, 2010 1:19 PM
Guest :
Hello my name is charles nelson, i am single dissabled parrent with an abused special needs daughter stuck in treatment in Co. springs while im dumped at the curb in denver with no idea what to do next. my ex decited to end the relationship on a whim with out cause and now i'm stuck like chuck. I can't find any thing for fathers in my possition and need help emidately. its so sad with our society being as advanced as it is that there are next to no resorces for fathers. If anyone has advice or resorces please email me at Noctaraus@yahoo.com
Jul 26, 2010 9:52 AM
Guest :
i am a single mother of two girls a 2 yr. old and one about to be 4 their father died last yr. at the age of 20 in a terrible car accidet he wasnt driving and there was no acohol involved just speeding...im 22 i cant seem to get no help i live with my parents right now but im havein to pay rent and other bills and buy food and by time im done with that i really dont have money to pay my other bills and the only income me and the girls have is the ssi they get from their father i cant find no where else they wont let me get food stamps because of the ssi i cant find a job im bout to start college soon hopefully and i have bad credit i could get an apartment mayb thru the governmant but they are all run down and have shooting all the time and people sellin drigs and things like that deffinatly not a place for a young mother and two small girls....i dont know what to do i could afford somewhere with rent around300 the most 350 if anyone has any advice send me and email at mesommerandsadie@yahoo.com
Aug 19, 2010 2:31 PM
Guest :
Everything is for the mother. Single fathers pay child support, pay all expenses when child is with them during visitations, summer visitation. Provide all basic needs, clothing when child is with him, Mother has not once taken the child for a haircut (done this three times). Child is dirty and smells but when caseworker visits everything is hunky dory. They need to visit her unannounced. We get no breaks - my ex lives like a queen - nice apt.(gets asssitance), new car, balckberry phone, laptop, flat screen TV, new furniture. We all know where my child support is going for. Then on top of that evens screws me out of the tax exemption and refuses to sign the form so I can take the tax credit. She knows how to use the system.
Oct 23, 2010 10:12 PM
Guest :
I hate to hear about any parent, mother or father, to leave their children to the curb. I am now 30y/o with 2 young ones and their father is not doing anything to help me, in fact, he's threatening to take them altho he's in no better situation than I am. I am temporarily living with family for one more month, then we're on our own. I have nothing, no job, car, home... I get medicaid for my kids and foodstamps. I can't seem to come out on top no matter what I do. Right now im looking at being in a homeless shelter and my kids dont deserve that. It would be even great if I could find someone who wants some kind of work in exchange for room/board for us. I'm in a desperate position and don't know how I came to this. I've been applying for jobs locally since i'm limited on transportation, and can't get a car b/c I haven't a job or income. All the housing lists are at least a year or 2 long, or closed. What is there to do now? Please any suggestions would be great! Time is really running short on me!
Nov 3, 2010 10:56 PM
Guest :
Im a single father of a special needs baby boy(16mo.) old. I have to give up my job because this state has no help on week ends for us. Financialy we are at a bad spot, waiting on repo of truck at anytime. He spent 15mo. in hosp. from birth his mother ran off DHS. took him,I am going to get him back in about 10 days. Is there anywhere to go and try to get help for us in anyway? DHS has only talked alot thus far with no help at all. Fathers have no where to turn for help in that system. Please e mail me at manessj44@yahoo.com, If there is any help out there for us. Thank You.
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